I bought my house the way most people do things they’re proud of: slowly, without fanfare, and by giving up a lot of things other people my age took for granted.
The three-bedroom ranch on Cleaver Street in a mid-sized city in central Ohio wasn’t anyone’s idea of impressive. The kitchen was original to 1987 and the master bathroom had a narrow footprint that required a kind of sideways shuffle to get from the door to the shower. The backyard was long and narrow and backed up to a chain-link fence that separated my property from the elementary school parking lot. In autumn, the oak in the front yard dropped leaves in quantities that felt genuinely punitive.
I loved every inch of it.
I had been twenty-six when I first put in the offer, which was on the high end of what my lender had approved and the low end of what I was terrified of. I had spent three years after college living in a series of apartments that ranged from tolerable to the kind of place that makes you understand certain life choices people make just to stop renting. I had a spreadsheet going. A savings account I checked too often. A specific number in my head that represented the down payment I needed to feel like I wasn’t making a mistake.
The day I signed the closing documents, I sat in my car in the parking lot of the title company and cried for about four minutes. Not from stress. From relief. Because I had wanted something specific and worked toward it systematically and now it existed, and the papers on the seat beside me proved it.
I moved in that same weekend with my friend Dara’s truck and a dinner of pizza eaten on the kitchen floor and a level of satisfaction I have never quite been able to replicate.
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