My 5-year-old son got lost while waiting for our flight. Panicked, I called his dad, who hurried over to assist find him. A 30-year-old lady discovered him at the airport two hours later.
My kid turned and remarked, “Dad knew her!” twenty years later as I told a friend about this lovely stranger. I froze when he said, “I wasn’t lost that day. Dad took me, and she…
I was sucked back into that airport by the recollection.
Calling his name over baggage and boarding announcements, my hands shaking and heart racing. My throat was sore from shouting as I kneeled to search under rows of chairs and ran into bathroom after lavatory. Airport security joined in, but every second felt like an hour.
Sami, his father, arrived pallid and wide-eyed. He grabbed my arms and asked where our son went. Though I saw terror in his eyes, I convinced myself it was worry.
We split up and maniacally comb the terminals. A woman approached me with my son’s hand two hours later, as I lay on a bench gasping for breath. She had kind eyes, short brown hair, and a yellow scarf.
My son appeared peaceful. She stated she found him outside Gate 12’s coffee shop. I thanked her repeatedly, barely able to process his return.
Rest of the day is fuzzy. I hugged him too firmly, swearing to never look away. Sami drove us home silently.
We never talked about it, and I thought it was a scary accident. Life progressed. Five years later, we divorced for various reasons—or so I believed.
Sami moved to another place, visited our son on holidays, and remarried. Our son became a quiet but strong young man, and I always thought the “lost at the airport” incident was just one of those bad parenting situations. Two decades later, when my 25-year-old son was visiting and I was having coffee with my friend Laleh, it came up again.
I laughed about how airport security has changed and described the yellow scarfed stranger who returned him. My youngster set his cup down, looked at me, and said, “Dad knew her.”
I blinked, hoping he was joking. “You mean what?” I requested.
He acted immediately. Mom, I wasn’t lost that day. Dad took me and her.”
I sensed a tilt.
My first thought was no. Impossible. Then memories of that day returned—Sami’s expression, my son’s calmness when he returned, the woman’s avoidance of my eyes as I thanked her.
My voice was harsh when I begged him to explain. Though he shrugged carelessly, his eyes were heavy. “I did not tell you because it would hurt you.
Dad had been seeing her. She sometimes smelled like his car’s cologne. “He introduced me to her while you waited.”
My coffee cooled in my hands as I glanced at him.
“Why? What made him do that? I believe he wanted her to meet me first.
I’m unsure before sharing anything,” he remarked. “But maybe I said something that made him nervous, so they made it look like she found me.”
I still feel betrayed after all these years. It explained too much—Sami’s frantic behavior, my son’s weird calm when he returned, and the airport’s swift departure without inquiries.
I turned memories like stones for a week. My son’s remarks opened something, and I couldn’t stop repeating minor incidents from our marriage: late-night phone conversations he’d slip outside to take, mysterious weekends “with the guys,” and a coworker’s hug that left a floral perfume on his jacket. I contacted Sami one night, fed up with the inquiries.
He picked up after years of silence. It wasn’t gradual. I informed him our son’s words.
The silence was long. A sigh followed. “He remembers more than I expected.”
I felt like my chest collapsed.
So it’s true? I requested. “Yes,” he said.
“I didn’t take him to hurt you. I was confused then. I hoped she could join us.
It was dumb. I panicked when I realized my mistake. She suggested she ‘find’ him to appear innocent.”
I couldn’t believe the cold calculation.
“You let me think my child was missing for two hours,” I shakily stated. “I know,” he whispered. “I did the worst thing ever.
I apologize.”
However, “sorry” didn’t affect my years of trust in him. I hung up silently. Over the next three days, I kept thinking: My son has borne this truth for 20 years to protect me.
Why did he tell me now? He continued, “Because I realized you deserved to know the whole story. Because I doubt you’d believe lies anymore.”
Hearing that was horrible and somehow healing.
Painful from the past. Healing because my son now trusts me to be honest. A month later, while sorting through old boxes, I uncovered an envelope of images Sami gave me years after the divorce—of him, our son, and family memories.
Our son at five standing next to a woman with short dark hair and a yellow scarf was in a candid photo I didn’t remember. The place appeared like a café. Proof in hand, I froze.
My son nodded. “That’s her. That day.”
I realized then that the truth had always been in my house.
I never looked closely. I stopped confronting Sami. It wasn’t necessary.
I needed to let go of the years I’d inadvertently softened that memory. I was wounded, but the reality helped me understand why our marriage failed. A few months later, a mutual contact informed me that Derya, the woman with the yellow scarf, had recently finished a difficult divorce.
She learned that her husband had left her for someone else in a same stealthy way as Sami. Though not schadenfreude, I felt karma. My son whispered, “Guess life evens things out sometimes.”
We had a long conversation that night about honesty and how lies may protect someone but always harm worse.
He wished he had told me sooner, but I told him maybe it occurred at the proper time—when I could handle it without breaking. I no longer see a defenseless toddler trapped in the airport bustle when I think of that day. I imagine a boy in an unfamiliar circumstance and a mother who found the truth after twenty years.
The lesson is that the truth may take years to reveal, but it frees you from the erroneous story. Sometimes, knowing the truth—no matter how late—makes you love the tellers more. I want to hear about a time when new truth changed your view of the past.
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