I own a cabin on the shore of Alder Lake, three hours north of where the rest of my family lives, tucked into the birch and pine of the northwoods. It is nothing fancy. Two bedrooms, five wooded acres running down to the water, board and batten siding I stained red and gray myself the first autumn I owned it, a dock with my old aluminum boat pulled up on the grass, and a footbridge over the inlet that floods every spring and dries out by June. There is a little shed near the tree line where I keep the paddles and the life vests, and in October the birches go the color of butter against the dark pine behind them, so bright some mornings it looks staged. The view changes with the season in ways I never get tired of, green in July, gold and rust by October, the water going that flat pewter color right before the first snow. I bought it after saving for nearly a decade while working as a software engineer, living carefully, packing my own lunch instead of eating out, driving the same car for twelve years so the down payment would come faster. It is the thing I am most proud of owning, and the place I go to remember that I am not just my job, my inbox, or someone else’s idea of what I owe them.
I want to say plainly, before any of the rest of this, that I love my sister. We were competitive as kids, but we were close too, the way sisters raised eighteen months apart usually are. She was the golden one. Honor roll, a partial scholarship, a smile my mother liked to say could talk her way out of anything. I was the quiet one who took five years to finish a software degree and spent most weekends picking up side work to make rent. I do not say that with any bitterness. I worked hard. I saved carefully. And that cabin was the one thing in my life I had built entirely on my own, without anyone’s help and without anyone’s permission.
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