It was heavy paper, wax seal, and my name was written in his handwriting.
He slid it across the table.
“It’s a love letter, my darling,” he said.
“Read it.”
I laughed before I could stop myself.
“Why can’t you just tell me what it says? Or read it to me?”
My husband’s hands trembled as he folded them.
My palms went cold; my body knew something was wrong before my brain caught up.
“My love…
If you’re reading this, it means I finally did what I should’ve done a long time ago.”
I looked up sharply.
“Gideon… what is this?
A love letter or a confession?”
He just nodded at the letter.
“Read, Jo.”
So I did.
And by the time I reached the final line, my hands were shaking so badly the paper crinkled. I had to press my elbow against the table just to keep reading.
My vision blurred, and my chest felt like it had been hollowed out and replaced with sand.
“Oh my goodness,” I whispered. “Happy Valentine’s Day to us, Gideon.”
We met at a party.
It wasn’t one of those whirlwind encounters with champagne and sparks. I was near the punch bowl, debating if I should just leave, when he walked up.
“You always look like you’re about to bolt,” he said.
He didn’t laugh. He just nodded like he understood that kind of restlessness.
Gideon was easy and comfortable in his skin.
He called when he said he would, and he remembered what kind of bagels I like without writing it down.
“I don’t want fireworks,” I told him once. “I just want something I can count on. I need you to be my biggest support.
That’s what I want.”
And we did.
We shared keys, chores, bank accounts, and then a last name.
We raised three kids, took shifts sleeping in hospital chairs when Sienna had pneumonia, and he brought me tea when I had migraines. He never made a fuss.
Even when my mother died, he sat beside me on the bathroom floor and held me like I might shatter.
But one night, years in, I looked at him across the dinner table and wondered, Does he still look at me like I’m the only one?
And the answer was… no.
The letter is still folded in the drawer beside my bed.
I never threw it out because some betrayals deserve to be archived, not because I want to return to the pain, but because it reminds me that it wasn’t all in my head.
It happened. It mattered.
The letter started with Gideon telling me that he loved me and the life we made. And that I was the best person he’d ever known.
But.
That word hit harder than any lie could ever have.
“But I didn’t marry the person I was in love with.
I married the person I could build a life with. I picked the good path, Jo… not the right one.”
And then he named her.
“Elena.”
Elena was my best friend, college roommate, my maid of honor, and Micaela’s godmother.
Gideon wrote that the night before our wedding.
He almost called it off. It wasn’t because he didn’t care for me — he did, in his own way. But because he couldn’t stop thinking about Elena.
And about what it would mean to stand beside one woman while his heart was still tethered to another.
“That night before our wedding, I sat on the edge of the hotel bed with my suit jacket hanging in the closet.
I stared at the phone for what felt like hours, trying to convince myself not to call her.
I ran through the vows in my head and realized that none of them would be honest — not if I still couldn’t let her go.
But I didn’t call. I didn’t leave, Jo.
I got up the next morning, shaved, smiled, and walked down that aisle like a man certain of his choices. I held the ring box with steady hands and told myself that love didn’t have to be wild to last.
And that…
building a life with you was enough. And that comfort was its own kind of passion.
I never saw Elena again after she moved to Vermont, not on my own anyway. But I never really let her go.
And she’s our daughter’s godmother. I guess a part of her will always be with… us.
Every year, on her birthday, I wrote her a letter.
Just a few pages; a memory or two, a thought, a what-if… I never mailed them. I kept them all.
It helped me breathe, Jo.
Even when I was happy with you, it helped me breathe.”
He said he never mailed them, but the act of writing made him feel closer to her than any anniversary with me ever did.
And then came the sentence that unstitched me:
“I loved you in a loyal way.
I loved her in a true way.”
I set the letter down. Then I went to our bedroom, picked up my phone, and called a divorce attorney.
That night, he stood in the doorway to our bedroom, like he didn’t know if he was allowed to come in.
“How long were you going to let me keep loving you like that?” I asked, not looking up.
“Just tell me. Did you ever look at me and wish I was her?”
His face twisted.
“No, not like…
that.”
“Then how?” My voice cracked. “Because I spent years thinking the silence between us was just… comfort.
That quiet meant peace, not regret.”
He stepped inside, but slowly.
“I didn’t regret marrying you. I regret what I never had the courage to admit.”
“That you deserved more than someone holding back, Jo.”
I pressed my hand to my chest, like I could calm it from the outside.
“Do you know how many times I wondered if you were pulling away? And talked myself down because you still showed up with tea, or kissed my forehead, or folded laundry without being asked?”
“I…
I thought that was enough.”
The next morning, Micaela called.
“You and Dad need to give a marriage speech at my bridal shower this weekend,” she said brightly. “Something sweet and real! And be honest, Mom!
Dan and I need all the advice we can get.”
“You want us to give a speech?” I repeated, actually laughing.
“You’re marriage goals, Mom. Please?”
I couldn’t speak, so my daughter filled the silence with more details about her shower.
At the shower, a niece leaned over and smiled at me.
“Your husband worships you,” she said, glancing at Gideon behind me. “You’re proof lasting love exists.”
I got up and found Micaela in the bathroom, fixing her makeup.
“Sweetheart, can I tell you something?”
“Don’t marry someone who treats you like the easy choice.”
“Is this about you and Dad?” she asked, her face frozen.
“You deserve to be chosen first.
That’s all. Make sure the person standing beside you is there because they can’t imagine anyone else. Okay?”
She nodded slowly.
The car ride home was quiet at first, just the sound of turn signals and tires on wet pavement.
“She looked beautiful,” Gideon said, eyes fixed on the road.
“She did.
She is.”
“She thinks we are, too,” I said, looking out the window.
“You didn’t have to say that to her… in the bathroom, I mean. I overheard.”
“I did, and if you have to question why I told my daughter to choose her partner well, then we have bigger issues.”
“She’ll think I never loved her mother.”
“Yes.
But not like I should have, Jo.”
The silence thickened.
“You know,” I said, finally breaking the silence. “I used to catch you drifting. At dinners, on vacations, and even in bed.
You were there, but you weren’t with me.”
“But you did. And I told myself it was normal. And you wrote her letters.”
He gripped the wheel.
“I never sent them.”
“But you meant every word.”
He didn’t deny it.
“I already called the attorney.
The papers will come next week.”
“You deserve more,” he said, parking the car.
“I always did,” I said as I stepped out into the night.
A few weeks later, the divorce was final.
When the twins came home for spring break, Gideon told them himself.
He said, “I loved your mother in a loyal way —” and couldn’t finish.
Micaela didn’t ask questions; she just hugged me longer than usual.
I left him the house — I didn’t want the memory of that letter humming through the walls.
I moved to a small place near the coast. I painted the walls yellow, bought myself peonies, and I started running again.
The day before I’d moved out, Gideon left a note on the counter.
“I hope you find someone who chooses you first.”
I read it once, then left it there.
Because I already had…
I’d chosen myself.
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