I bought a new dress for our 40th wedding anniversary because I wanted to look beautiful for my husband. An hour later, he introduced his mistress to fifty guests and announced he was leaving me. Then my daughter reached for her father’s microphone. And the evening stopped belonging to him.
David asked for the microphone at our fortieth anniversary dinner, and for one brief, foolish second, I thought he was about to surprise me with something sweet.
He was about to surprise me. Just not with anything sweet at all.
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We’d been together since college.
Forty years, three children, five grandchildren, and a house we’d painted twice and a garden we’d argued over every spring without ever actually changing the layout.
I still remembered the apartment we’d started in, the one with the radiator that banged like a drum all winter and the window that never quite closed.
And the year David lost his first job? We ate beans and rice for two months and somehow laughed about it more than we cried about it.
Forty years accumulate a lot of small, specific things that nobody else would understand the weight of.
When David suggested a big celebration for our anniversary, I was touched.
He’d never been the sentimental type, not really.
So when he booked an upscale restaurant and started talking about inviting everyone we knew, I let myself believe something in him had softened with age.
“This is such a big occasion,” he told me, holding my hand across the kitchen table. “I want everything to be perfect.”
I spent longer than I’ll admit picking out a dress. I bought new heels I probably didn’t need.
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