I opened my own bank statement yesterday for the first time in four years. My son does not know the credit union mailed it to me. He has managed my money since his father died. Every Friday he hands me an envelope and tells me to make it stretch.
Forty dollars. That is what is in the envelope. Grocery money, church money, everything money.
Last month I asked if I could buy my granddaughter a store bought birthday present instead of knitting one, and he rubbed his eyes like I was a leaky faucet and said, “Money’s tight, Ma. Maybe make her something. Kids love that.”
She is turning thirteen. Kids that age do not love that. But I said all right, honey, and I knitted, and I said thank you Friday when he handed me my own money like an allowance.
You should know why I never checked. When his father passed, I was not myself for a good year. Scott stepped in, and everyone at the funeral said thank goodness, Scott is so good with numbers. He moved everything to paperless so, as he put it, I wouldn’t be bothered. Nothing has come to this house with a dollar sign on it in four years. That is not an accident. I understand that now.
What cracked it open was the quilt raffle. Our church circle raffles a quilt every spring, and this year my name came out of the coffee can. A little check, made out to me. I walked it down to the credit union myself because it was sunny and I felt proud.
The teller was new. Young, chatty, sweet as anything. She looked at her screen and said, “Which one should this go into, sweetheart? You’ve got the checking, the savings, and the two certificates.”
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