I believed the hardest part would be watching my mother fight for her life in a hospital bed. I never imagined that while she lay unconscious, a quiet test of character was taking place behind our backs.
My mom, Shirley, is 82 years old and the backbone of our family. She planted her own tomatoes, fixed her own fence, and once chased a raccoon off her porch with a broom while laughing.
The stroke came out of nowhere.
Last week, one minute she was pruning roses in the backyard, and the next, she was face down in the dirt.
Mrs.
Patterson from next door saw her fall and called 911.
By the time my brother Dave and I reached the hospital, Mom was in the intensive care unit (ICU), hooked up to machines. When Dave called his wife, Brenda, she refused to come.
He told me she said, “I can’t go in there. I’m too emotional.
I won’t be able to handle seeing Mom in the ICU.”
That should’ve been my first warning.
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The doctor didn’t sugarcoat Mom’s condition.
“Prepare yourselves. She suffered a massive stroke,” he said quietly.
Dave gripped the back of a chair. I felt like the floor had shifted under my feet.
Inside the ICU, Mom looked small as she lay unconscious.
I kept telling myself that as long as she was breathing and her heart was beating, that meant something.
A nurse approached us gently. “She was admitted in muddy jeans and sneakers. It would help if you could bring comfortable clothing for when she’s stable enough.”
“I’ll go,” I said.
“Dave, you stay here.”
He nodded. “Call me if you need me.”
I promised I would.
Mom’s house sat exactly 20 minutes from the hospital. I remember counting the red lights because I needed something to focus on.
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