When dinner began, Rick turned on his showman mode. He was loud, animated, and charming.
He gladly interrupted me mid-sentence to talk over me as if I wasn’t even there.
Rick openly corrected my comments with smug little flourishes.
And David? He was polite, but quiet and observant.
I noticed the way his eyes lingered when my husband spoke over me, the tightness in his jaw.
At one point, I stood up to adjust the thermostat. Rick laughed!
“Sorry about that,” he said to David casually.
“She’s going through THE CHANGE. Menopause. Temperature issues.”
I froze!
The words hit harder than any slap. I wanted the floor to open up and swallow me whole!
But David didn’t laugh. He just watched, blinked, and then looked away.
I sat down, heart hammering, pretending I hadn’t just been reduced to a punchline in my own home.
The rest of the night blurred.
I vaguely remember clearing plates, skipping dessert, and watching Rick boast about himself as if I didn’t exist — or was just part of the furniture.
Later, when the door closed behind David, Rick turned to me, practically glowing.
I went to bed without a word.
I lay there in the dark, staring at the ceiling, feeling like a complete joke and a ghost in my own life.
That same night, I heard Rick on a phone call downstairs, speaking in hushed tones. The call was late at night, and he was strangely speaking in coded phrases, making sudden schedule changes to his work.
The next morning, I woke up to my phone ringing. It was an unknown number.
I almost let it ring, but something made me answer.
“Hi,” a man’s voice said calmly.
“This is David. Rick’s boss from last night.”
My stomach dropped.
“I’m calling you privately,” he continued. “Your husband shouldn’t know.
I’m sorry for contacting you like this, but I got your details from his work information.”
Luckily, Rick had already left for work, I assumed.
I sat up in bed. My hands trembled.
“I saw everything,” he said. “And the way he treated you…
that was unacceptable.”
I couldn’t speak.
Then he said, real quiet, “I have an idea about how to teach him a lesson. If you are keen, please hear me out.”
That’s when I found my voice. “I already have an idea.
I was actually thinking last night that I’ve had enough. I just didn’t know what to do. Until now.”
We agreed to talk again.
Privately.
I had always been in the background to Rick’s spotlight, but for the first time, someone had seen me — really seen me.
I started really paying attention.
Rick’s late-night calls. I also noticed that his calendar had odd entries: “consult” at 9 p.m., “client touch base” on a Saturday. None of these matched the “promotion meetings” he claimed to attend.
One night, I overheard him on the phone, pacing the backyard.
That wasn’t a man chasing a promotion.
That was one covering his tracks!
So one day, I lied to him about going to the store.
Instead, I followed him.
He met a woman in a navy suit at a quiet café. They talked intensely. Papers exchanged hands.
It was obvious that he wasn’t cheating. Their gathering looked more like a meeting. Perhaps an interview?
Something strange was definitely happening with my husband.
I documented everything and brought it to David.
We met in a coffee shop on the other side of town.
“He’s not being honest with me,” I said, sliding the photos and phone recordings across the table.
David looked at the images and sighed. “I suspected something. He’s been… inconsistent, over-promising and under-delivering.
There’s talk. I wanted to promote him. But I started noticing things that didn’t add up — and now I know why.
Maybe that’s why he’s going for interviews — he knows he might not get the promotion and could lose his job.”
“Why lie to me? So, he’s been making jokes about me to avoid taking ownership of his own mess?” I asked.
David looked at me. “He’s scared.
Scared of failing — and more scared of admitting it.”
“Well,” I said, “I’m more than scared. I’m angry!”
David gave me access.
He gave me the documents and the timelines. Rick had been padding hours, logging meetings that didn’t exist, trying to make his sales look bigger than they were.
He was all smoke and mirrors!
At home, Rick sensed the change in me. He tried being sweet.
My husband, who thought my menopause was a joke, suddenly started giving me compliments and small gifts. I wasn’t stupid or blind anymore, so I didn’t bite.
That’s when he turned cruel again.
At a BBQ the following weekend, I was grabbing a drink when Rick, already two beers in, clapped his buddy on the back and said, “Watch out, she’ll bite your head off.
Menopause rage.”
I turned and faced him. “It’s impressive how secure you are — mocking the one person keeping your secrets.”
He laughed. But I saw the flicker in his eyes.
When David and I finally had enough evidence, we set the trap.
David invited Rick to what he thought was a private dinner with a senior executive.
He didn’t know I’d be there — or that David had called in a compliance officer from human resources (HR).
When Rick arrived, he looked confused to see me.
I smiled politely. “Nice to see you, Rick.”
David didn’t waste time. He placed a folder on the table.
“Rick, I really wanted to promote you.
But I started noticing things that didn’t add up — and now I know why. We’ve reviewed your performance. Your time sheets, your client reports.
There are inconsistencies. Conflicts of interest.”
My husband blinked, then laughed. “Are you letting my wife poison you?”
I leaned forward.
“You did that yourself.”
He stammered, argued, and claimed there were misunderstandings. David stayed calm. The HR representative remained silent but alert.
Rick wasn’t fired, but he was demoted.
Quietly.
The company knew how to handle its own.
At home, Rick exploded!
He screamed at me about betrayal and threw all his toys out of the cot. I didn’t engage.
Because I had begun divorce proceedings after David showed me the lies Rick was keeping. I used the documents to strengthen my case against him.
“You’ve made fun of me for years,” I told him. “I just finally listened.”
I moved out two weeks later.
I found a quiet apartment with soft yellow walls and morning sun that poured through the windows. The silence was unfamiliar at first, but peaceful.
A week later, David showed up.
We’d stayed in contact after I told him I was divorcing Rick and had moved out.
He brought tea in a thermos — no expectations, just company.
“I’ve never met someone who took back their power with such grace,” he said as we sat on my little balcony.
I smiled. “I didn’t know I had it. Not until someone reminded me.”
We talked for hours — about books, travel, work, and everything that Rick never had the patience for.
When he left that evening, he didn’t ask to see me again, but I knew he would.
And I knew I’d say yes!
Months passed. I picked up a part-time job at the local bookstore. I started seeing old friends.
I laughed again — real, full laughter that reached my eyes!
One afternoon, Rick sent a message.
I stared at it, then deleted it without responding.
That evening, David texted. “There’s a concert in the park. Nothing fancy.
Want to come with me?”
I said yes!
We sat side by side on the grass. The music floated around us.
At one point, he reached for my hand. I let him take it.
I looked at him, at the sky turning purple, at the new life I’d begun.
I thought menopause would be the end of something.
But it turned out to be the start of everything.
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