My grandmother called me crying after being told she had to leave her nursing home. I arrived ready to defend the sweetest woman I knew. Then the director showed me what Elsie had done. Why had she risked another resident’s life?
My grandmother, Elsie, is the sweetest person I know.
At least, that is what I would have told anyone before last Tuesday.
She is 84, tiny, soft-spoken, and still says “oh dear” when she drops something. She apologizes to furniture after bumping into it and keeps hard candies in every purse she owns, even though half of them have melted into their wrappers.
After my grandfather, Arthur, passed away, she lived alone for a while.
She insisted she was fine.
“I’m perfectly capable of taking care of myself,” she told my mother and me whenever we suggested otherwise.
Then she fell in the bathroom.
She lay on the tile for almost three hours before a neighbor heard her calling through the open window.
After that, my mom and I convinced her to move into a nursing home where someone could actually keep an eye on her.
She hated the idea at first.
“I’m not old enough for old people,” she told me while I packed her sweaters.
“Grandma, you’re 84.”
“Exactly. Practically middle-aged.”
I tried not to laugh.
“You’ll have activities. People to talk to. Nurses nearby if you need anything.”
“I already have people to talk to.”
“Your mailman doesn’t count.”
“He knows a great deal about local politics.”
Still, she moved.
The first week was rough.
She complained that the soup was too salty, the television room was too loud, and the mattress felt like “a punishment designed by someone who hated spines.”
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