I was folding laundry in my living room in Minneapolis when my phone buzzed with a text from my sister, Julia. The message was brief, almost clinical in its detachment:
Hey, we decided to keep Mom’s birthday trip small this year. Just immediate family.
Hope you understand. I read it three times, trying to make sense of the words. Immediate family.
I was her daughter. How much more immediate could I get? My one-bedroom apartment in a brick building just off Hennepin Avenue suddenly felt smaller, the walls pressing in as I sat on the edge of my gray IKEA couch.
Outside, October rain tapped against the windows, the sky over downtown Minneapolis a low, slate-colored ceiling. Somewhere, a light rail car rumbled past on its way toward U.S. Bank Stadium, its sound a distant hum under the rain.
I had taken time off from my job at a marketing firm in the North Loop specifically for this trip. My mother was turning sixty-five, and we’d been planning a weekend at a cabin on the North Shore of Lake Superior for months—board games, hiking along the rocky shoreline, maybe a bonfire if the wind from the lake wasn’t too brutal. It was supposed to be one of those cozy Midwestern family weekends people post about on Facebook.
I called Julia immediately. She answered on the fourth ring, her voice carrying that particular tone of forced cheerfulness people use when they know they’re doing something wrong but refuse to acknowledge it. “Amy, hi.
Did you get my text?”
“I did,” I said. “I’m confused. What do you mean by ‘immediate family’?
I’m literally Mom’s daughter.”
There was a pause filled with the sound of children shouting in the background. Julia had three kids under the age of eight, and their chaos was the constant soundtrack to every conversation we had—cartoons blaring, plastic toys clattering, someone always yelling about snacks. “Well, you know,” she said, “Patrick and his family will be there, and me and David with the kids.
It’s just going to be crowded already, and we thought it would be better to keep the numbers down.”
Patrick. My younger brother. The golden child who could do no wrong in anyone’s eyes, despite the fact that he’d bounced from job to job for the past five years while his wife, Melissa, supported him with her pharmaceutical sales income.
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