Then, the night before the baby shower, I got a message from the mom-to-be. She said she had to “make some hard decisions” and would have to uninvite me—but she still “wanted” me to drop off the food. I replied that I understood and respected her decision, but I wouldn’t be dropping off the food.
She asked me why, and I explained that it didn’t make sense for me to drive seventy-five minutes to deliver food to an event I was no longer welcome at. The only reason I volunteered in the first place was because I was invited. She got upset and asked how she was supposed to find someone to cater on such short notice, accusing me of being hateful for refusing.
A few friends took her side, but most agreed with me. Now I’m left wondering—from a stranger’s perspective—am I really the bad person here? Source: nowiveseeneverything.club
