I CAME HOME TO FIND MY HUSBAND AND HIS EX DIGGING IN MY GARDEN — WHEN I GOT CLOSER, I FROZE AT WHAT I SAW
I pulled into the driveway and slammed on the brakes. My husband and his ex-wife were out there… digging up all the flowers I’d worked so hard to grow. I hadn’t even known Janet was coming over.
Last I heard, they barely spoke. So why were they here together? And why in MY GARDEN!?
I flew out of the car, heart pounding, and ran straight toward them, demanding to know what the hell was going on. My husband froze, completely speechless. Then his ex turned to him, smirking like she had been waiting for this moment, and said loud enough for me to hear: “Oh, you DIDN’T TELL her?
Love, she deserves to know WHAT WE HID.”
I swear, the world spun for a second. The shovel in my husband’s hands clanked to the ground. My eyes darted between them, waiting for someone to say something that made sense.
Janet wiped her hands on her jeans, all calm and collected, while I was barely holding it together. “I… I didn’t think we’d need to bring this up,” my husband—Rhett—mumbled. His voice cracked.
“Not anymore.”
“Bring what up?” I snapped, my stomach tight. Janet tilted her head toward the garden bed. “Look for yourself.”
I took a hesitant step closer.
The hole they were digging was maybe two feet deep. And right at the bottom, I saw the corner of… a wooden box? Rhett sighed, kneeling beside it.
He gently pulled the box out, brushing off dirt. It wasn’t some old storage bin or forgotten time capsule. No.
This thing looked… handmade. Weathered, but deliberate. And when he opened it, my heart dropped.
Inside were dozens of letters. Some were stained with time. Some newer.
All of them addressed to a name I didn’t recognize—“Arlo.”
Janet spoke before Rhett could. “Arlo was our baby.”
Everything around me went quiet. “You had a kid?” I whispered, stepping back.
Rhett looked like he’d aged ten years in two minutes. “He was stillborn. Twelve years ago.
We buried these letters… it was part of our way of saying goodbye. We’d write him, every now and then. Then we stopped.
Life moved on. But I never stopped thinking about him.”
I stood there, wind knocked out of me. I wasn’t angry anymore—just… stunned.
“Why didn’t you ever tell me?”
He rubbed his forehead. “Because I didn’t want to bring that pain into this life. Our life.
I thought I’d made peace with it. But a few weeks ago, I got a letter in the mail. No return address.
Just a piece of paper that said, ‘Go back to the garden. The truth still grows there.’”
Janet added, “We thought maybe someone found the box, or… I don’t know. We just wanted to check it was still here.”
I looked down at the letters again.
Dozens of them. Years of grief and love and memory, buried right under my rosebushes. A wave of guilt hit me.
“I’m sorry,” I said softly. “I—I didn’t know.”
Rhett looked up, eyes full of something I hadn’t seen in a while—raw vulnerability. “I wanted to protect you from it.
But maybe that was the wrong call.”
Janet nodded. “He never stopped loving you. That’s not what this is about.
But grief doesn’t always stay buried just because we cover it.”
We sat on the back porch after that, quiet for a long time. I read a few of the letters. They weren’t dramatic.
Just two parents writing to a child they never got to meet. Telling him about the seasons. About the dog they got once.
About how they hoped he would’ve liked music. And then, a small twist that hit me sideways. One of the newer letters wasn’t written by either of them.
It was written by his mother—Rhett’s mom—who passed away two years ago. “I found this one in her things,” Rhett said quietly. “I guess she never mailed it.
So I buried it here last month. I guess… that’s what triggered everything.”
And just like that, it all made sense. I thought that day would break something between us.
But weirdly, it became the day that opened something instead. A door that had been shut tight for too long. Over the next week, Rhett and I talked about Arlo—really talked.
Janet even came over once more, this time with coffee and old photos. I realized I wasn’t in competition with her past. I was part of Rhett’s future.
And part of healing is honoring what came before. We ended up building a little wooden bench over that spot in the garden. Just something quiet and respectful.
I even planted new roses nearby—blue ones. Rhett said Arlo was going to be named after the sky.
