My little sister had her first kid at 15 and her second at 17. I adopted them. She is 25 now and pregnant again.
Her “boyfriend” turned out to be married and bailed when she told him. I told her that I would help her out if she terminated and got her tubes tied. She said I was a monster and then proceeded to block my number, delete me on social media, and tell our extended family that I was trying to force her into a medical procedure.
I wasn’t surprised. Hurt, yes. But not surprised.
I had seen this pattern before. The impulsiveness, the drama, the refusal to take any accountability for her choices. But despite everything, I never stopped loving her.
That’s what made this all so exhausting. Her name is Marla. She was always the “free spirit” of the family.
Our mom died when I was 18 and she was 8. Our dad checked out emotionally not long after that. I basically raised her.
I put off college to work full-time, just so we could eat and keep the lights on. I don’t say that for pity. I say it because people think I came at her harshly with my conditions, but they don’t know the full picture.
When Marla got pregnant at 15, I didn’t yell. I cried in the bathroom so she wouldn’t see, then made appointments with doctors, schools, social workers. When she got pregnant again at 17, I sat on the edge of the tub and whispered, “Please don’t make me do this alone.”
But I did.
She dropped the babies at my apartment “for the weekend” and didn’t come back for two months. Then four. Then she stopped showing up at all.
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