A woman in her mid-thirties recently shared a deeply troubling experience on Reddit, laying bare the moment her marriage fractured under the weight of unexpected news. What she thought would be a joyful surprise became a reckoning that forced her to confront the truth about the man she married—and the future of her family. This is her story.
“I’m a 35-year-old woman married to a 45-year-old man for over seven years,” she began. Together, they already had four children. Life was loud and chaotic, but it was the kind of chaos she believed they had chosen together.
Her husband had always talked about wanting a big family. He’d said it when they were dating, repeated it after their wedding, and embraced it with each new child. So for his recent birthday, she planned a surprise she thought would make him smile.
“I surprised him with a pregnancy test result that we will be having a 5th child,” she wrote. “He seemed to have a meltdown when he heard it, and he said no, it is impossible, we have been careful.”
At first, she laughed nervously, assuming shock had stolen his words. But the look on his face didn’t soften.
“I thought he would be happy,” she continued. “As he said it himself when we were dating that he wants a lot of kids.”
The shock turned to disbelief a few days later at the gynecologist’s office. “The doctor says I am 10 weeks pregnant and we are having twins,” she wrote.
Twins. What should have been a moment of wonder unraveled instantly. “My husband was livid.
He keeps screaming no, no, no, no, no. I lost count of him saying no.”
In the sterile exam room, with ultrasound images still fresh on the screen, he spiraled. His voice rose, his hands shook, and his fear poured out as anger.
Afterward, in the car, he finally explained—if it could be called that. “He told me that he just can’t have 6 kids at his age,” she wrote. She stared at him, confused.
This was the same man who had insisted on a big family. The same man who had celebrated each birth. Tears blurred her vision as she asked what they were supposed to do now.
“He kept saying that he just can’t have 6 kids.”
The conversation grew darker the closer they got to home. “He says how he should not have gotten married and have kids,” she wrote. “And he does not know anymore if his life is worth it, that he’d be happy to have a reset button.”
Her heart sank.
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