When my husband walked out because I wasn’t pretty enough for him anymore, I thought my world had ended. But three days later, when I found him on his knees begging to come back, I realized something had shifted forever. Daniel and I used to be in love with each other.
We met in college, and for years, we were that couple everyone else envied. He would surprise me with little notes in my textbooks, and I would pack his favorite sandwiches for his long study sessions. We talked about everything and dreamed of building a life together that would be different from our parents’ marriages.
Now, after 11 years of marriage and four beautiful children, things are completely different. From the outside, we probably looked like your typical busy parents juggling work, kids, and all the chaos that comes with family life. Daniel went to his job every morning, and I went to mine.
We both came home to help with homework, make dinner, and get everyone ready for bed. But inside our home, I was carrying everything that really mattered. The reality was that I went back to work when our youngest was only six months old.
I always returned to work quickly after each baby, not because I wanted to leave my newborns, but because I had absolutely no choice in the matter. My mom has been chronically ill for years now, and her medications cost more than most people spend on rent. The insurance only covers part of it, and the rest falls on me.
Our bills never wait for anyone to feel ready, and Daniel’s paycheck alone was never enough to cover everything we needed. So, the question of whether I should stay home with the babies was never really a question at all. It was always just a matter of how quickly I could get back to earning the money we desperately needed.
Here’s the truth about Daniel that I probably should have paid more attention to years ago. He was never the most romantic husband, even in our best times. He wasn’t the type to shower me with compliments or surprise me with flowers just because it was Tuesday.
He didn’t write me love letters or plan elaborate date nights. But he also wasn’t cruel back then, at least not in any way that felt intentional. He was steady and reliable.
We both worked our jobs, we both came home tired, and we both did our part to raise the kids and keep the household running. I told myself that steady was enough. Maybe I didn’t have a partner who made me feel beautiful or special every day, but I had someone who came home every night and laughed with our kids.
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