3. My brothers, my mom, and I were in a restaurant eating lunch. We didn’t have much growing up, so a Sunday lunch was a big deal. Nothing fancy, just a mom with her three boys.
When my mom asked for the bill, the waitress said it had been paid by the couple at the next table, who had already left. I’m almost 40 and can still remember it vividly.
4. I had wanted an alto flute for a while, and a regular customer of mine was upgrading his, so I offered to buy his old one from him. He let me take it over the weekend to decide if I really wanted it and how much I would be willing to pay for it.
Long story short, he ended up gifting it to me. Then he passed away unexpectedly three weeks later. RIP, Tom. You were one of the best people I’ve ever known.
5. Flying home after Basic Training to spend Christmas with my family, I found out the flight was overbooked and there was only one seat left. The couple in front of me were debating which of them should take it.
The guy said, “You should take it, it’s your family. I’ll catch a later flight.” Then the woman looked back, saw me, and asked where I was headed. I mentioned I was going home to see my pregnant wife and my family. She then told the woman at the counter that I should get the last seat.
It ended up being the last Christmas with my dad, and my whole family wasn’t devastated.
6. I was in my late 50s at the time and at Costco, loading 50 lb bags of salt onto my cart when a young 20-something fellow offered to help. I’m pretty fit and could have easily finished, but the offer was so kind. He loaded my cart, and I thanked him.
To this day, I still get a little teary-eyed thinking about how a stranger would help me like that.
7. I ran out of gas once while driving across the country. Lots of cars just passed me for over four hours. Finally, a guy stopped and checked on me. I told him I had no gas or cash. He just turned around and left.
Ten minutes later, he came back and poured gas into my car. He made sure it started and then left. That guy saved my life because I was having some dark thoughts.
8. When I was homeless, and it was freezing outside, an older lady let me come into her apartment to warm up for a couple of hours. She made me food and hot tea. She was truly a blessing, and I’ll never forget her.
Oh, and I almost forgot—right before I left, she gave me $300 for a hotel room for a few days and some food money.
9. My card was declined while buying lunch on my break at the grocery store where I was working. The customer behind me handed the cashier $20 and insisted I keep the change (my lunch was around $5).
I was 18, living on my own in a new city after leaving home, and just generally having a hard time. This was 10 years ago, and I still tear up thinking about it. She had no idea how much I needed that random act of kindness that day.
10. I was sitting in a restaurant with my youngest, eating breakfast after going through a difficult and emotionally draining experience with my ex, I struggled to keep the tears at bay.
A kind woman came up and discreetly pressed a tissue into my hand. Until that moment, I felt so alone in the world with my pain. It is a moment that saved me.
11. I was 8 and on the train with my mom, heading to the hospital for eye surgery. I was listening to music on my CD Walkman while talking to my mom about the surgery. I guess the man in front of me noticed how anxious I was because he gave me the Michael Bublé CD album he had bought that morning for his wife as a gift.
I remember our interaction so clearly. It made my day, and I was so happy that I forgot all about my anxiety. I still own that CD.
12. A cashier at my local grocery store paid for my groceries because I didn’t have enough. I felt bad because I should have checked my bank account beforehand to see how much I had.
13. When I was 15 or 16, my parents dropped me off at the mall to meet up with my girlfriend. We had a small argument, and she dumped me on the spot, literally running into the arms of some guy she knew—right in front of me.
I was emotionally wrecked and called my parents no less than 30 times, but I got no answer. I was about to start walking the 8 miles back home when a kid in the grade above me came up and asked what was wrong. He drove me home and made me feel like my life wasn’t over. Thank you, Brian.
14. Riding to work one hot summer day in Prague on a tram with no AC—crowded, hot, and miserable. I was sweating rivers, but couldn’t even reach my handkerchief because the car was so packed.
I was just standing there, feeling miserable, when an older woman smiled at me and handed me a napkin from her purse. I thanked her profusely.
15. In high school, passing between classes, I was having a really dark, bad day. A girl walking past smiled at me. Every day after that, we’d pass each other and smile, then started saying hi—but that was it. We never had time to really talk.
I saw her at a hockey game once. It was funny, actually talking for a few minutes and then telling my friends she was a friend from school—even though I didn’t know her name.
